Now, this might spark controversy with women, but this is how I see it, and I’m sure “some” men might feel the same. I wouldn’t be surprised if some women also agree. I believe there are 3 types of women. The friends with benefits clearly only mean it’s only for sex. No plans on going further than that. The girlfriend type, which I personally believe is the best type of woman. Especially if they’re the fun outgoing type. And lastly, the wifey type. We all know what the wifey type is all about. That’s basically the highest level that a woman wants to be towards a deserving man. Now they’re women who view men as a certain type also. The majority of women put men in a friend zone because they feel like they’re not worthy enough to be in a relationship with them. Being in a friend zone is a tough and confusing situation that I talk about another time. Overall, men do need to be upfront and tell a woman their intentions so they won’t waste their time. The worst thing a man can do is waste a woman’s time, regardless of whether it’s FWB, a relationship, or a marriage!
FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS
First up is the friends with benefits type. Now that’s just what it is! Just straight sex with no strings attached. That means no emotional attachments at all. Unfortunately, some break the rule and end up falling in love. And when that happens, that’s when things become complicated. Personally, I’ve never been in a friend with benefits, and I wouldn’t know what to do if I caught feelings. But from what I’ve been told, it’s an awkward feeling, especially when the other person doesn’t share those same feelings. But it’s always about timing when it comes to FWB. Both parties have to come to an agreement on where and when they can actually fuck. I guess you can say that not onlyare there perks of FWB, but there’s no pressure whatsoever! It’s all about having fun and not worrying about anything. It’s only an issue if one of the persons is in a relationship with someone, or even worse, is married. That’s why it’s best to have both parties be single and involved with “anyone” else. Because we all know safety is first! Also, it’s best not to let anyone know about y’all two; the less people know about what’s going on…the better!
THE GIRLFRIEND
The cool-ass girlfriend. What man doesn’t want that? Most women want that Gina and Martin type of relationship. Where both can laugh and joke with one another, but most importantly, always be down for each other, no matter what. That wonderful girlfriend who doesn’t care about marriage and doesn’t get caught up in what people, mainly her friends, care about in their relationship. Most of her friends would try to pressure her into thinking about marriage or even having children, just because they have that experience. Even being a nice long-term relationship, there’s always love there. Y’all can still travel the world and share happy moments together without marriage. Fucking while being in a relationship is a lot more spontaneous and can be intense if both share the same sexual desires. However, at times it can be intimidating because you always have that feeling of having to live up to expectations, whereas with your wife, who already knows how you handle your situation, is used to it, and has no problems at all.
THE WIFE
Lastly, then comes the wifey type. The crown that most women dream of being when they get older. No games, no confusion, or doubts. If a man wants to spend the rest of his life with you, he’ll make that move to prove it. Let’s face it, fellas, nothing better than an I love you “missionary sex… sex while looking into the person you love in the eyes. To be clear with it, fucking is a whole lot better when it’s someone you actually love and feel 100% comfortable with. The only problem with “most” men in marriage is that the stress is at a higher level than where is when it’s an FWB, and in a relationship, there’s not that much stress. “Some” men and there are some women also complain that there’s not enough sex in the marriage, and that’s why the majority of married couples get divorced. All it takes is one significant other to be happy and resort to infidelity. Personally, I believe married couples could and should work things out if possible. Like, what woman doesn’t want a romantic getaway trip to Paris and make love at night in a fancy hotel close to the Eiffel Tower? Love is a fragile feeling, and it should always be handled with care.
OVERALL,
Like I said in the beginning, just make sure you let the person know what your intentions are so you don’t waste each other’s time. Because, believe it or not, wasting someone’s time or any time period is worse than money. You can’t buy time back. And always make sure both parties are “single”. I’m sure we all know that rule, but yet, some still don’t get it and try it’s how problems occur. If you’re in an FWB situation, you can’t catch feelings. Of course, that’s easier said than done. If you’re in a relationship or straight-up marriage, just appreciate the person you’re with, especially if they have been there for you during the bad and good times. If you think things aren’t working out, either fix them or simply end it. When I mean end, it doesn’t mean cheat! Just tell the person you want to move on, and that’s it. I know it sounds easy, but shit, how many people you saw can’t do it????
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